Being a Modern Day Male Chastity Slave

Being a Modern Day Male Chastity Slave

Being a male chastity slave in the modern day isn’t as strange as it used to be. I am sure there was a time when a guy would have mentioned something about living this lifestyle and people would have not been too happy about it. But with so many people having open minds these days, it seems like there isn’t such a big deal when someone comes out and tells everyone. Granted, some of your family members probably won’t be all that excited to hear about it, but you don’t really have to walk in and tell them.  Visit

When I started telling people that I was a male chastity slave, most of them thought I was joking and the rest thought I was a pervert. It’s not very exciting to have your friends think that you are a pervert and they tell you they are busy every time you try to contact them to hang out for a while. I have yet to tell my family, although my cousin did see my chastity device once and asked me about it. I told him that it was none of his business and he shouldn’t be going through my dresser drawers when I wasn’t around.

If you think that being a male chastity slave is all fun and games, then you have never worn a chastity device. While it is fun to go through training and everything, there are times when it’s more of a hindrance than anything else. You really have to pick your moments to shine so that you can get your device taken off, though, and that is the hardest thing about this lifestyle. After all, you don’t really want to please your partner every single time you are playing. If you do that, then there really isn’t a reason to be wearing your device all the time.


Understanding a Male Chastity Slave


I thought
about being a male chastity slave once but wasn’t sure about the whole idea of
being forced to do things I didn’t want to do. I figured that it would end up
being like the hardcore BDSM lifestyle or something but, as it turns out, that
isn’t even close to what this is. I did some research on it and found out that
this lifestyle is something that looked to be rather interesting. At least that
was the picture I was getting from reading the information online about it.
That is what ended up changing my mind, too.

I have since
been a male chastity slave for a few months and it is quite exciting. I’m not
being treated like a sub-human or anything like that, which was a good thing. I
also found that my Master is rather a pleasant individual even when commanding
me to do things. We have a safe word set up, or rather a phrase actually, so
that if I am uncomfortable with anything, we can stop and go on to something a
bit different. So far we haven’t had to use that phrase at all, which is rather
interesting to me.

Since being
a, I have found ways of pleasing the person I am with like
never before. I always figured that what I was doing would be enough but, as it
turns out, I was completely wrong to think that way. You have to learn your
partner and what they enjoy doing and things like that takes time. You can’t
just rush into anything and expect them to be perfectly fine and happy with it.
The device that I wear has allowed me to control myself like never before as
well, which has come in handy on more than one occasion.