Being a Modern Day Male Chastity Slave

Being a Modern Day Male Chastity Slave

Being a male chastity slave in the modern day isn’t as strange as it used to be. I am sure there was a time when a guy would have mentioned something about living this lifestyle and people would have not been too happy about it. But with so many people having open minds these days, it seems like there isn’t such a big deal when someone comes out and tells everyone. Granted, some of your family members probably won’t be all that excited to hear about it, but you don’t really have to walk in and tell them.  Visit

When I started telling people that I was a male chastity slave, most of them thought I was joking and the rest thought I was a pervert. It’s not very exciting to have your friends think that you are a pervert and they tell you they are busy every time you try to contact them to hang out for a while. I have yet to tell my family, although my cousin did see my chastity device once and asked me about it. I told him that it was none of his business and he shouldn’t be going through my dresser drawers when I wasn’t around.

If you think that being a male chastity slave is all fun and games, then you have never worn a chastity device. While it is fun to go through training and everything, there are times when it’s more of a hindrance than anything else. You really have to pick your moments to shine so that you can get your device taken off, though, and that is the hardest thing about this lifestyle. After all, you don’t really want to please your partner every single time you are playing. If you do that, then there really isn’t a reason to be wearing your device all the time.


Male Chastity Slave vs. Submissive Sex Slave

Male Chastity Slave vs. Submissive Sex Slave

As a male
chastity slave, I have to say that it pains me to hear that some people think I
am simply submissive and am forced to wear my device. I am sure that there are
a lot of guys in the world that are doing just that, but I chose to wear this
device and my submissiveness has nothing to do with it. I am not one of those
guys that gets tied up and whipped if I am not using enough tongue pressure to
clean my Mistresses boots properly. I am a guy that does everything he can to
please his partner before being allowed to have the cage removed.

There is a
huge difference between a www.malechastityfetish.comslave and a submissive sex slave. A
quick look online will show you that the two aren’t even related as far as most
guys are concerned. Now that doesn’t mean you can’t be a submissive sex slave
and wear a chastity device to keep you in control. I know a few submissive guys
that do just that and they enjoy it quite a bit. But I am the type of guy that
gets to have fun while wearing my device.

I love being
a male chastity slave in that I have all the freedom in the world to do
whatever I want without being punished for it. I just can’t take my chastity
cage off until my partner is pleased enough to allow it. They hold the key
after all and the only way I can get my hands on it is by having them give it
to me. There is nothing submissive about it and I tend to be a lot better at
foreplay because of it. You have to understand that I do get to take my cage off
almost every single time now and that makes it even more worthwhile.

Understanding the Life of a Male Chastity Slave

Understanding the Life of a Male Chastity Slave

Being a male
chastity slave is not all that difficult for guys that are willing to do
whatever they can to please the person they are with. In fact, I look at it as
yet another aspect of my life that I need to live through in order to truly
feel the excitement I have been missing in my life over the years. Some people
may think that living like this means you are locked up and only let out for
the enjoyment of another, but that isn’t what a chastity slave is about.

I have been
a male chastity slave for almost three years now and I have yet to be locked up
and used strictly for the sexual enjoyment of my owner. In fact, I am pretty
much free to do whatever I want to do regardless of what my owner thinks I
should be doing. But I will probably not be let out of my device if I choose to
live my life that way. That is what being a slave is all about to me; the
prospect of pleasing my owner and being let out of my chastity cage for a brief
period of time.

If you are
interested in becoming a www.malechastityfetish.comslave like me, then you need to do your
part and find an owner that will treat you properly. I have seen friends of mine
get involved in this lifestyle and find themselves owners that treated them
like dirt the entire time they were with them. Some guys might find that
exciting but a real owner wouldn’t do something like that to you since you are
already locked up inside a small metal cage and they are keeping the key from
you. It’s the freedom from the cage that all slaves are looking for and that is
what the owner should be focusing his or her attention on the most. They will
get more results from that.

Understanding Life as a Male Chastity Slave

Understanding Life as a Male Chastity Slave

The male
chastity slave role is something that most guys in the world aren’t going to
understand unless they actually open themselves up to being a slave for someone
else. This doesn’t mean that you can’t read up on this lifestyle and get a good
understanding of what could happen when you get involved in it, but actually
getting into a chastity cage and experiencing the feeling is something
completely different than just reading about it. Just make sure you have a good
owner of you could end up regretting your choice to be a slave in this fetish.

I decided to
become a male chastity slave because I wanted to experience something
completely different in my life. I had been involved in numerous other fetishes
out there, but they all seemed to have the same ending when it came right down
to it. This fetish, however, doesn’t have an ending that is anything like those
others and I wanted to see if it was something that I could handle or not. Actually,
it doesn’t ever truly end. This is an ongoing fetish because it’s more of a
lifestyle choice than anything else. Fortunately for me, I was able to find an
owner that knew what they were doing with someone new to this fetish and walked
me through it like a professional.

If you think
that being a male chastity slave is going to be easy, then you have no idea
what this fetish is about. You will find that having to wear a chastity device
and pleasing your owner beyond imagination can be one of the most difficult
things you have ever done in your entire life. Just trying to ignore the fact that
you have an erection trying to break free from the device is hard enough, but
trying to ignore it while you are in the middle of pleasing your owner is
something that most guys aren’t even capable of doing. But this is something
that you will learn as you’re undergoing training. Accept it for what it’s
worth and dive in headfirst. You will most likely never look back.

How to Become a Male Chastity Slave

How to Become a Male Chastity Slave

A lot of men decide to take chastity living one step
further and become a male chastity slave. This is a pretty extreme version of
living a chaste life, but it also works for those men that choose to walk that
path. If you’re really into male chastity, you may want to consider trying out
the slave gig to see if it’s something you might want to do.

There are a couple of ways that this is done. You can
find a dominant person to take control of all parts of your chastity lifestyle
and be trained in the right way. This person may then become your owner and you
will be the slave. Another way to be a male chastity slave is through the joining
of a stable. This is where you will be a part of a group of male slaves. You
may all live under the same roof or you may simply meet on specified days. It
just depends on how involved you want to be.

Something else you can do is let your partner be
your owner. That makes being a slave so much simpler because you don’t have to
go anywhere special in order to take part in slave activities. Instead, your
owner is right there with you under the same roof and can lead you around by
your chastity device. Being a male chastity slave to someone you’re involved
with can also make a relationship so much more exciting as well as challenging.

At any rate, when you decide that you want to
experience being a chastity slave, there are several ways to go about becoming
one. Depending on how serious you are, you might want to let others involved
that you’re giving this lifestyle a test run to see how well it works for you.
Otherwise, it may be misunderstood and you’ll be totally trapped and that’s not
a fun situation to be in.

How to be a Male Chastity Slave

How to be a Male Chastity Slave

Being a male
chastity slave may seem like a creepy thing to most people in the world, but
the truth is it can be a lot of fun if you are a slave to the right person. I
have had the experience of being a slave to someone that wasn’t exactly
pleasant and it wasn’t fun at all. The beginning was okay but, after a while,
it became a challenge to even get up the energy to deal with it all. Being a
good slave, though, meant that I had to do whatever I was told to do and I
continued along with the charade.

I was able to find another male chastity slave owner that had fun with the
whole aspect of this fetish. We were able to enjoy our time together a lot more
when it came to the idea of male chastity and that was what was missing the
first time around. Being able to be a slave and actually enjoying being around
the person that you are with is something that doesn’t happen very often but,
when it does, it is something that you definitely need to grab ahold of and not
let go.

You see, not
all male chastity slave guys are complete sexual perverts or freaks. Some of us
simply want to enjoy the time we have with someone that is special to us in
ways that might not fit with the moral majority. Although calling them moral
for not allowing themselves the chance to experience something like this is a
bit awkward if you ask me. But it takes all kinds to make this life worth
living and I am thankful that I have been able to open my mind enough to see
that there is much more in this life worth trying than I ever thought possible.


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Understanding the Male Chastity Slave Lifestyle


Understanding the Male Chastity Slave Lifestyle

Being a male
chastity slave is not for the weak willed. Sure, everyone thinks that a sexual
slave is someone that simply does what they are told regardless of how they
feel about it and that they must be weak willed individuals. That couldn’t be
further from the truth, though. It takes a very strong will to allow someone to
place your cock into a chastity device and use you as their own personal toy.
If you don’t think that is true, then you should give it a shot sometime and
see how long you can last.

someone that kind of control over you makes you think that the male chastity
slave lifestyle isn’t something you want to participate in, until you actually
try it out. Once you realize that having someone else take complete control of
your sexual appetites gives you the freedom to experience more things in life,
you will understand why so many guys are doing it these days. What used to be a
secret fetish has turned into a movement that is spreading around the world
like a wave. This could be the beginning of a whole new way of living your life
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Party Like a Male Chastity Slave

Party Like a Male Chastity Slave

One of the
things that I have learned about living the male chastity slave lifestyle is that I have forgotten all about any of the other
fetishes that I have ever had. Well, there is one that I still enjoy which has
to do with feet, but all the other things that I have enjoyed over the years
have gone right out the window since putting on that first chastity device. You
may not find it that easy to forget about your previous fetishes,  but I certainly was able to once I locked my cock
up and couldn’t use it anymore.

The funny
thing about this is that I always enjoyed showing off my hard cock whenever I
could. I wasn’t going around flashing people on the street or anything like
that, but I was proud enough of the size of my cock to allow anyone that wanted
to look at it a chance. I would even pull it out in the clubs just to see the
expressions on the faces of those around me. I got into trouble a few times by
doing things like that, but getting tossed out of a club isn’t all that big of
a deal.

I wore my
male chastity slave device to the urologist once and ended up having a really
interesting conversation. It turned out that my urologist was also into the
chastity lifestyle and told me all about what I needed to do in order to
massage my prostate to stay healthy. He also said that it would enable me to
wear my device for longer periods of time. Then, he showed me what massaging
the prostate was all about and my medical insurance covered the entire thing.
Being able to have one of the most intense sexual encounters of my life in that
manner was fantastic.

Once I
figured out what I needed to do in order to massage my prostate, everything
else that I had ever wanted to try in the world of sex melted away into the
background. I couldn’t care less what happened to me after finding out that
little secret about the prostate. Of course, it takes some self-control on my
part to not massage my prostate every single day. It’s almost like trying to
live your life without breathing for days on end, but by being able to hold off,
it makes it much more intense.

There are
actually a lot of things that you could do to make your male chastity fetish
more enjoyable, but most of them need to be done in private. The whole
massaging of the prostate shouldn’t be done out in public, but there are a few
guys that can enjoy some of these things out in public if they are lucky enough
to be with the right people and in the right place. Some fetish clubs would
allow things that will excite the chastity fetishist, but not take things
overboard so that they might get into trouble.

Now there
are some clubs out there, which are much harder to get invited to, where these
chastity devices will be more than welcome as long as you aren’t wearing
anything else over the top of them. I have actually found a couple of these
clubs, mostly in private residences by the way, but they are exceptionally fun
ways of exploring your sexual side in an open fashion. You don’t even have to
use your real name, either, so that no one would be able to track you down
later. It’s safe and fun and can bring out a whole new side to your chastity
lifestyle that you may never have known about.

In fact, it
was at one of these clubs that I first found out about the male chastity
lifestyle and what it could do for me. Before that, I didn’t even know that
anything like that ever existed, but after that party, it was the only thing I
could ever think about. I was invited to one of these private party clubs by a
friend of mine that didn’t want to go there alone, just in case it was
something like an orgy with a bunch of old ugly people, as they put it.

They wanted
to go to this party to see what it was all about, but wanted me to go with them
so that they at least knew someone there. He said that if it was lame, we could
always take off and go to a real club, but he really wanted to check it out so
we went. Once I walked in the door, I was ready to stay there for the rest of
my life, though. Everywhere I looked, there were extremely sexy individuals
wearing all manner of clothing, and quite a few that weren’t wearing any
clothing at all.

I noticed
that there were some guys walking around with these metal cages over their
cocks, which I later found out were male chastity devices. They had dog collars
on and leashes attached to them, which made me think it was more of the bondage
or submissive aspect, and they were taking drinks around like waiters at a fancy
party. Of course, these waiters were only wearing the cages and dog collars and
nothing else, so that fancy party aspect went right out the window just by
looking at them.

I asked
someone at the party who the guys were that were wearing the collars and they
told me that they were the chastity slaves of whomever the person was that was
throwing this particular party. That is when I found out what being a chastity
slave was all about, and received my very first lesson in wearing one of these
cages. You see, I went on my search for the person that was throwing this party
and had to ask them all about that fascinating cage that their slaves were
wearing and where I could possibly get one.

My search
for more information about these male chastity devices took me down into the
basement of the house. This is where the hardcore BDSM section of the party was
happening, and I was told that the owner of the house would be down there
giving a demonstration. I was a bit scared of walking down into some dungeon
filled with half beaten people strung up on the walls and chained to different
torture devices or furniture. Of course, the basement was fully converted and
designed to look like a perfectly natural living space and didn’t resemble a
dungeon at all, which made me fill a lot better.

I asked
around and found the owner of the house, a woman in her late 40’s, sitting on a
couch talking to a couple of other people about different ways of using rope to
bring a climax to a heightened state or something. I waited until they were
finished and she glanced up at me and smiled. She immediately knew that I was
completely out of place and waved me on into a separate room down the hall. She
introduced herself and told me that I looked like a little lost puppy among all
the partygoers that were there on a regular basis.

Naturally, I
told her that my friend had been invited and I was kind of the backup in case
things got a bit too weird for him and he needed to leave. Then I asked her
about the male chastity devices that her slaves were wearing and where I might
be able to get one. She smiled and asked me if I had never seen something like
that before? I told her that just about everything I had seen in her home was
new to me and that the only fetish I had was a foot fetish.

She smiled
and walked over to a closet, which was huge, and pulled a sliding shelf out. On
that shelf there must have been thirty different styles of chastity devices.
Each and every one of them seemed to be brand new. She went through each one
and told me what the design was based on and how they would feel while they
were being worn. Then she asked me if I would like to try a few of them on to
see if it was something I would be more inclined to enjoy in the future or not.

That night I
found out that I absolutely had to have a male chastity device over my cock,
and that there are some really good looking women out there that just happened
to have cocks under their dresses. I have been back to her parties a couple of
times since then and each time I go back she remembers me by name and we have a
wonderful talk in that little private room down in the basement. Then I go out
and have some more sexually based fun with the others upstairs and in the pool.
I must say that wearing a chastity device has definitely changed my life over
the years, and for the better all because a friend wanted my support at a


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Deciding to be a Male Chastity Slave


Deciding to be a Male Chastity Slave

Being a male
chastity slave is not something that every man in the world should be involved
in. If you have a hard time giving up control over things like your sex life,
then you aren’t going to enjoy being a chastity slave. On the other hand, if
you see it as a new adventure that you can learn from and enjoy, then this
might be something you want to try as soon as humanly possible. All you have to
do is talk to your partner about what you expect out of an experience of this
nature and see if they are interested as well.

It might
help convincing your partner to take you on as a male chastity slave if they
were able to see some aspects of what they can get out of it. Thankfully, there
are plenty of sites online that deal with the chastity slave aspect in a
relationship, and it might be a good idea to go through these sites together.
It will help them understand more about the lifestyle change you want to
experience and show them all the fun that they are going to be able to have
with it. It’s a very good way of acclimating them to this type of lifestyle as


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The Best Male Chastity Slave

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I just
recently had another session with one of my favorite male chastity slaves, and I am in a very good mood
tonight. It’s amazing how having someone in a cock cage seems to make my day so
much brighter and my nights so much kinkier. The good news is that this
particular slave knows exactly how to satisfy me even when I am not in the mood
to be satisfied. The bad thing about that is that he always gets to take his
cage off and have his way with me. Not that I complain too much about it,

The fact
that he can please me every time we are together isn’t all that strange. The
fact that he is the only chastity slave out of all the ones that I have now or
have had in the past is a bit strange, though. You would think that there would
be at least a couple more guys out there that would be able to please me more
often than once a month. Of course, those guys usually enjoyed wearing their
cages more than anything else, and this slave is determined to have his taken
off as often as possible.

He even told
me that he wouldn’t be staying in his male chastity device very long when we
first met. He said that while he enjoyed wearing his device for long periods of
time, I was too sexy for him not to do everything in his ability to make sure
that I was pleased. I figured he was just trying to be cute, but it turns out
that every task I have given him was done with a perfection that no man should
actually possess these days. The scary thing about it is the fact that he
really is good in bed.

Why he would
want to wear a chastity device is beyond me, but I do enjoy it when he gets to
take it off. Most of the slaves that I have aren’t as focused on the sessions
like this one. They tend to drift off when they are performing their tasks,
even when those tasks are to please me in a sexual manner. Sometimes it becomes
quite a pain in the ass when they drift off like that. It would annoy you, too,
if they were supposed to be giving you oral and suddenly started thinking about
a football game or something.

I tend to
set tasks that most of my male chastity slaves can accomplish fairly easily to
make things simple for them. But with this slave, I have to think of more
drastic tasks for him to perform. The easy ones just don’t make any sense when
he finishes them so quickly. So this time I had him out washing my car. I know
that doesn’t sound like something that would be difficult to do. After all,
everyone washes their car at one point or another; but I found a way to make it
a bit more interesting for him.

You see,
even though I don’t follow that whole humiliation aspect of owning a chastity
slave, there are times when it comes in handy. For him, the humiliation aspect
is actually needed in order to make the tasks a bit more daunting to complete.
That is why I had him washing my car dressed up like a cheerleader while
wearing only his chastity cage under his skirt. I also made him use a
toothbrush to clean my tires, but he wasn’t allowed to get down on the ground
to do it. Instead, he had to bend over so everyone could see his ass under that

I felt that by
doing this while he was wearing his male
chastity slave
 device, it would make him falter in some way and not be able to
finish. Then I would get to punish him by making him continue to wear that
chastity device of his. Unfortunately, wearing a cheerleaders outfit in public
while washing my car didn’t faze him in the least. In fact, he seemed like he
was highly enjoying himself, even when being whistled at by teenage boys
driving by. So, he got to have the key when he was done.

I know that
it’s not right for me to be upset that he always gets the key, but I would love
to be able to find something that he isn’t capable of doing perfectly so that I
can make him go at least one time without getting the cage off. It just seems
to me that the idea of being a chastity slave is to have to wear the device,
and he hardly ever wears it when he is around me. Sure, he wears it when he
goes home until he comes back, but that isn’t what the lifestyle is about.

I do enjoy the
fact that he tells me he doesn’t have to take it off all the time or how he
could help me plan out some male chastity slave tasks for him that he might not be
able to accomplish. But that defeats the purpose of everything as far as I am
concerned. I am the one that is supposed to come up with something for him to
do in the hopes that he won’t be able to please me; not him. I have even tried
to lie about being pleased, but that never works, either.

I went as
far as trying to hide the pleasure on my face by putting on a mask so that he
couldn’t see that I was pleased, and it failed miserably. I just knew that I
was going to have him walking out of my place still wearing that cock cage, but
he saw right though the lie. He told me that if I wasn’t pleased with him, then
he would have to try again and again until I was pleased. I tried to tell him
that there would be no chance of him succeeding, but he wouldn’t listen.

After the
third time of doing the same thing over and over again, I finally had to tell
him that he was doing it perfectly and that I was indeed pleased with him. He
got a smile on his face and told me that it would have been easier if I had
just said so the first time instead of trying to get him to keep wearing his
device. I failed miserably at lying to him, and you would think that I would be
able to do that simply because he is my slave.

I do enjoy
having him as a slave, though. My home has never been this clean before and I
tend to find ways of messing it up before he gets here. In fact, I ended up dumping
over my trash can in the kitchen before tonight so that he had another little
task to do after washing my car. Naturally, I made him take off the cheerleader
costume and do it in the nude, but after he was done I swear I could have eaten
off that floor. It’s really sad when you can’t trip up your own slave and force
him to be punished.

Anyone that
is looking at having their own male chastity slave is going to have to keep
things like this in mind. You never know which slave is going to end up being the
best behaved and perfect task manager ever. You are going to have lots of
slaves that are crappy at following orders that you will have to deal with, but
sometimes you get one that is absolutely perfect in every way. It’s annoying,
but it’s something you are going to have to live with if you want to continue
to live this kind of lifestyle.

No matter
what you might think about having a slave, you are going to be surprised at how
well some of them behave. This is completely different from the BDSM lifestyle,
though. The slaves that you have in that lifestyle will do everything they can
to make your life miserable in the hopes that they can be punished. But with male
chastity. they are doing everything they can to make sure that they get their
cage taken off at some point or another. You have to prepare for this in every
way that you can, but it’s definitely worth the extra effort.

I have spent
a lot of time trying to figure out the perfect tasks for my slave and failed
every time to keep him in his chastity device. I honestly think it’s some kind
of game between us to see whether or not it’s actually something that I am able
to do. I admit that he keeps me on my toes. and I think that is the main reason
why I keep him around. Sure, it isn’t the typical slave owner relationship that
you might be thinking of, but it works for us. I think that the two of us will
be together for a very long time, and I have no problems with that happening.
In fact, I think that he will be the one slave I keep around for the longest
period of time; and that is always good for me.


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