My Thoughts on Male Chastity
I have been
involved in the male chastity lifestyle
for a few years now and I have to admit that I have never been happier in my
life. Sure, it was a bit difficult when I first started to wear chastity devices.
There were times when I literally tried to pull the device off because I
couldn’t handle having it on all the time, but those times have passed and I am
more comfortable than ever. Having an understanding partner is extremely
helpful as well since I am encouraged to wear my device for them.
Now, I am
not a chastity slave as you might think. I am free to take my device off
whenever I want to since I now carry a key in my wallet. But I prefer to leave
my device on for as long as I possibly can so that I can please my partner as
much as possible. I love the fact that I can do things to him that I never
thought of doing before to make him happy and not worry about what I want out
of our sexual encounters anymore. Before, it was all about penetration with me,
but not anymore.
Now that I
am in control of my life with my male
chastity device I can easily find ways of making my partner happy without
even trying. I find it very pleasing myself to hear him squeal right before he
cums. That is probably my favorite thing to make him do these days and I was
never able to do that to him before wearing a chastity device. I always wanted
to hurry up for the good part where I was the one doing all the squealing. Truthfully,
all of the devices that I now wear has led me to the conclusion that there is
more to life than I thought.
You see I
have always been a sex addict, in general. I can’t tell you how many times I
have been caught watching porn with my cock in my hand. But now that I have a
device that keeps me from getting an erection, and I am used to wearing it all
the time, I no longer do that. I haven’t watched a single porn video in almost
two years now and it doesn’t bother me in the least. In fact, I think it is
quite nice that I don’t have the urge to watch porn at work anymore, and so
does my boss.
Wearing a male chastity device has brought my
partner and me closer together as well. There was a time when I would leave him
at the club to use the restroom and end up having sex with someone else before
going back to him at the bar. I wasn’t proud of doing that, but it was a
compulsion that I didn’t have control over at the time. He never knew about it,
but I always felt bad afterward and couldn’t tell him how sorry I was that I
could be such a pig.
Now, the two
of us can go out to the club and no matter how drunk I get I am perfectly
capable of not having sex with other guys in the restroom. In fact, the thought
never crosses my mind that there are any other guys in that club besides my
partner. I can say it was difficult to get to that mindset at first, but it’s
much easier now that I have my own urges under control. It’s all about pleasing
my partner now and no one else.
times when I drag my partner into the restroom and beg for the key to take my male chastity cage off with so that the
two of us can get it on, but we usually try to do that sort of thing at home as
much as possible. The main thing to remember is that there is no way that I am
going to be able to do anything with any other guy out there because I have
trained myself to please my partner and no one else. That is something a lot
more men need to do in my opinion.
So if you
are interested in trying to see if you can handle wearing something like this,
then you need to find a device that is simple to put on while also being effective.
I tried going with something that was outrageously complicated and it is still
sitting in the bottom of my sock drawer. I had to purchase something that I was
comfortable wearing, but also something that I could get on and off without any
hassles. This is vitally important, so you should remember this above everything
else you take away with you from this writing.
nothing worse than getting your male
chastity device home and finding out that you aren’t able to figure out how
to wear it correctly. It is also extremely embarrassing when you think you have
it on the right way and, halfway through your day, the thing falls off because
you didn’t have the locking mechanism put together the right way. Yes, I have
done this and it is not fun trying to get out of a business meeting because
your chastity cage is starting to come out the bottom of your pant leg. Try
explaining that to your boss and see how far you get.
have the right size and you know how to get it on and off, you will be ready to
fully invest your effort into remaining chaste with it on. I made my partner
hold the key for me to begin with and slowly earned my own trust to where I
could hold it for emergencies. It takes a lot of willpower to get to something
like that and if you are one of those guys that has no willpower, wearing
www.koalaswim.comis going to help. But you should have a way of keeping that
key out of reach so that you aren’t taking it off all the time with your lack
of will. That’s the only way to truly learn your lesson.