Training your Partner to Let you be a Male Chastity Slave

 

Training your Partner to Let you be a Male Chastity Slave

If being a
male chastity slave is something that you are really interested in, then you
need to find a partner that is as interested as you are. If your partner isn’t
all that interested in being your owner, then you might find that being a slave
isn’t all that promising. So how do you go about telling your partner that you
would like to be their slave in a chastity device? Well, obviously communication
is a very strong tool in a relationship, so you need to start there. If you
don’t, then it’s just going to be awkward.

Being a male
chastity slave is hard enough, but trying to do it when your partner isn’t
aware of what it is can pretty much be impossible. You need to sit them down
and explain to them exactly what you are attempting to do with this lifestyle
change. They are also going to need to do some research in order to figure out
how they are supposed to treat you and what they need to do in order to control
your sexual urges. If you don’t take care of this issue up front, you aren’t
going to end up having all that much fun in the end.

 

 

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I Am a Male Chastity Slave

I Am a Male Chastity Slave

Being a male chastity slave is a difficult life to live. This isn’t nearly as bad as being a
BDSM slave, but if your owner has that type of a background in their life, then
it could get fairly tedious for you as the slave. I have had my fair share of
owners over the years and the BDSM owners are a lot more strict about what they
will allow you to do and the types of punishments they will administer to you
for not pleasing them in a manner that they feel is appropriate.

If you are
lucky, you will find an owner that doesn’t have this type of a background for
your first stint as a chastity slave. You want to make sure that you can at
least enjoy your time with your owner, and that can be difficult to do when you
are chained to a chair and being ass fucked with a large dildo. Not that
something like that is necessarily a bad thing for a lot of guys out there, but
if you aren’t used to being a slave of any kind, then you might want to start
out a bit simpler to begin with.

One of the
best male chastity owners that I have been with allowed me to be happy and pain
free while we were together. She didn’t make me do anything that I wasn’t
prepared to do and she always asked me what types of things I would be willing
to try. In fact, we would sit down for an hour or so before starting my
training and talk about all the things that we both wanted to experience in our
time together. A lot of guys don’t get to experience something like that with
their life partners, and it can make a huge difference in your relationship.

The worst
chastity owner I ever had was completely oblivious to the things I wanted. It
was all about him and nothing else mattered. If I wasn’t able to please him in
the manner that he was expecting, then he would end up throwing a fit and start
yelling at me for no reason. I wasn’t able to stay with him for very long as I
quickly got tired of being blamed for his inadequacies. I did everything he
wanted me to do, but it always turned out that I was doing it wrong when, in
reality, he had no idea what he was doing.

I found out
a few months later that I was the first male
chastity
slave he had ever had, and he was getting all of his information
off some website online that had a forum filled with individuals that didn’t
know what they were talking about. I know this because I went to the forum and
looked around one night. I actually believe that none of the men on that site
had ever seen a real chastity device let alone ever put one on and locked it
over their cocks.

Now I have a
slave owner that knows what it is they want out of our relationship and is
still willing to listen to the things that I am interested in. There are times
when I don’t get to take the cage off my cock, but that is to be expected at
times. If I was able to get the cage off my cock all the time, then I wouldn’t
be that good of a slave after all. Sometimes you have to keep your mouth shut
and just do what you need to do in order to make your owner proud.

If you have
never been a male chastity slave before and this is your first time, then you
need to make sure that you are prepared for what is going to happen to you.
Most guys don’t really understand what it means to be a slave that is wearing a
chastity device and what they will have to do in order to succeed in being
happy with this lifestyle choice. Now that may sound a bit uppity to some
people, but the truth is that you are going to have to do some things that you
may not have thought about doing in the past.

It takes a
very special type of guy to be able to wear a device like this and still feel
sexy about it. Even if you have been a slave before and you know that you can
have a lot of fun with something like this, it doesn’t mean that you are ready
for the chastity slave lifestyle. You will need to do some homework in order to
figure out if this is actually something you want to do. You can wear a
chastity device all the time and not have to be a slave to someone else because
of it.

There are
actually a lot of guys that have worn male chastity devices and never ventured
into the world of being a slave. I spent a good year or so simply wearing my
device and enjoying it without anyone else even knowing about it let alone
forcing me to do things. You might want to try that out a few times in order to
see if wearing a chastity device is actually something you would be comfortable
with in the first place. If you can’t handle wearing a device on your own, then
you aren’t going to do very well being someone else’s slave while wearing it.

I have never
had a problem with being a slave to anyone as long as they were willing to give
me some kind of say in the things I was supposed to do for them. I’m not much
of a guy for the whole pain aspect of sexual encounters, so having a slave
owner that thrives on pain is something I’m not too comfortable with. But you
could be different with all of that and pain might be something you are willing
to enjoy.

Whether you
want to be a full-fledged male chastity slave or not, wearing a chastity device
is quite an entertaining experience. I have learned a lot of things about
myself that I never knew simply because I was wearing a device that kept me
from getting an erection. I never would have known how great foreplay could be
if it wasn’t for the fact that I couldn’t use my cock while I was wearing my
device. Think about that the next time you crawl into bed with someone and see
how long you could give oral sex to someone without getting an erection while
doing it.

I know that
I wasn’t able to do things like that without getting an erection and
maintaining that erection ended up making me a bit quick out the gate if you
know what I mean. But by wearing this device and forcing my erection to stay
away, I was able to last a hell of a lot longer than ever before. Most guys
that wear a device like this will find out the same thing about themselves
rather quickly. The problem is that some guys won’t wear the device long enough
to find things like this out or not.

When I first
started to delve into the male chastity slave lifestyle, I had already been
wearing my device for a good bit of time. This wasn’t something that I just
decided to try out for the fun of it I knew what I was getting myself into. I
knew that there was a good chance that I was going to be wearing my device for
a very long time if I wasn’t able to get the key back feom the slave owner.
That is something you really need to worry about because you might not get that
key for a very long time.

I once spent
an entire month in my device simply because my owner decided to go on vacation
for a few weeks and never told me about it until they were already gone. Now
that is something you are going to have deal with in your own way if it happens
to you. I personally spent a few hours crying in the corner because I knew that
I was going to have to keep my device on the entire time they were gone. Then,
I got over it and just went about my daily routine.

Being a male
chastity slave is something that can open up all kinds of doors in your life
and allow you to see a different person inside. But it can also be one of the
hardest things you have ever done if you aren’t ready for it. Even if you have
read everything there is to know about being a chastity slave, there are still
going to be moments that confuse you and catch you off guard as well. I highly
recommend this lifestyle to anyone that is willing to put their lives back into
their hands and have some fun, though. You never know what kind of interesting
things you can end up doing while wearing a chastity device, and every one of
them is going to show you just how adventurous you can truly become in your
life.

 

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What it Means to be a Male Chastity Slave

Male Chastity Slave

What it Means to be a Male Chastity Slave

I have been
a male chastity slave for a very long time now and there is nothing I would
rather do to make my partner happy. Most people that don’t understand the role of
the chastity slave would think that I am a pervert that is completely whipped
by my partner. The thing they don’t understand is that I absolutely love being
able to please my partner in ways that those other guys could never understand.
They have no clue what it takes to really please someone in bed and they never
will because they think they are sexual gods.

Everyone knows that being a male chastity slave
is not the hardest thing to do with your life. But once you and your owner get
the hang of things it becomes another aspect of life that you simply enjoy
being a part of. Every day that I am wearing my chastity device and pleasing my
partner is another day that my happiness is brought out of me. How many guys
out there that don’t understand the concept of being a chastity slave could say
the same thing about the lives they are leading right now? How many of you
would consider your lives better than anything I could ever have simply because
you can have an erection while having sex? Most of you may feel that way but
don’t knock something until you’ve given it a chance.

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The Male Chastity Slave Mansion

The Male Chastity Slave Mansion

“Well, here it is,” Charles said as we stepped out
of the car and stared at the huge mansion before us. “This is Chastain
Mansion.”

“Wow,” was about all I could manage to say at that
point in time. The place was enormous. It was certainly much more than I had
expected when I decided to take the next step in my male chastity journey.

“Yeah,” agreed Charles. “It is pretty impressive,
huh? I felt the same way the first time that I ever came here.”

As I stood there in amazement, I thought back to the
road that had led me to this moment. My ex-girlfriend had really been a ball
buster, so to speak. She had to have everything her way or no way at all. The
word “compromise” was not in her vocabulary. This was particularly true when it
came to having sex. I was expected to lick her pussy for hours if that’s what
she wanted and if that was required to make her cum. Sometimes I was sure that
she deliberately held back just to make me stay down there.

Eventually, I had enough of being treated like a
piece of garbage. That’s right; I actually got brave enough to send her
packing. In fact, I packed for her!
When she got home one evening, all of her shit was packed and loaded into a
rented U-Haul. There was a note attached to one of the pieces of luggage that
said, “GET THE FUCK OUT!” That was my goodbye note to her.

It was really odd that she didn’t see that coming.
She claimed to have some sort of psychic abilities so it seems she would have
known. All I know is that I was pretty relieved and happy to not have to deal
with her any longer. That happiness lasted for about a month.

In spite of myself, I found myself missing the fact
that someone else had been in charge of my sexual pleasure and when I got to
have it. Now, I could jerk off whenever I wanted to but it wasn’t quite as much
fun since I didn’t have to sneak around to do it. On top of that, it never
occurred to me to try to meet new women. She had really fucked me up bad.

Then, one night, my friend Charles told me that I
had to get out of the house and stop moping around. After all, I was the one
that ended things with that bitch, so I had no reason to be sorry about it. He
wanted to take me to a new club that he had discovered recently. I figured that
I didn’t really have anything else to do and I went with him.

This club was very strange to me from the beginning.
For one thing, it was well out in the middle of nowhere rather than being
downtown or some place trendy. He knew the way easily enough, though, so I was
hoping that he wouldn’t get drunk or something and not be able to drive me back
home. It was clear to me that I wouldn’t have ever been able to find my way
home. Anyway, he parked the car and we went up to the entrance. I couldn’t
believe how many people seemed to be here.

My attitude started to change about this whole
experience about the time that we got to the door. This absolutely gorgeous
woman was standing there wearing a rather interesting outfit. It seemed to be
made of some sort of leather or vinyl. The top part was a corset style and she
wasn’t wearing anything else other than thigh high black silk stockings and
high heeled black leather knee boots. Her hair was black and tumbled down over
her shoulders and reached the middle of her back. Her makeup was rather extreme
but she was still very beautiful.

“Hi Charles,” she said, greeting my friend by name.
“Who do we have here?”

“Good evening Mistress Bailey,” he said in a
subservient tone that I had never heard him use. “This is my friend, Joshua.”

I whipped my head around to look at him. No one
called me Joshua except my mother when she was mad at me for something.

“Um, it’s actually, Josh,” I said.

“No, no,” the woman said. “Here we use full names,
Joshua. Welcome. Charles will show you around.”

Well, Charles did show me around and that’s how I
got to learn all about male chastity and how it works. This place had several
women that looked a lot like Mistress Bailey and they all seemed to be in
various stages of training men. Charles showed me all of the different chastity
devices that were on display in this place and he was able to explain to me how
they all worked. Then he went on to show me some of the demonstration areas
where the women explained to the newcomers just how they could become a part of
the male chastity lifestyle.

After my initial shock wore off, I found that this
stuff was starting to make my cock hard. Maybe it was these beautiful women and
the way they were dressed or maybe it was just that I had been kind of used to
associating sex with giving up control because of that cunt I had been with for
too long. Now, I had hated that shit with her, but the way these women were
working it only made me want to fuck. It was much later that I learned this was
one of those urges that needed to be controlled by a chastity device.  Oddly enough, though, that didn’t really
disappoint me at all. You would think that since I was so horny and ready to
fuck that it would have upset me to learn that wasn’t gonna happen. Instead,
though, if anything, the deprivation was making me even hotter. I thought for
sure that I was gonna shoot my load right there in my underwear.

Eventually, I learned all about this “club” that
Charles had dragged me to. It was a male chastity club and the guys that came
here learned all about the chastity lifestyle. They got to spend their time
here being trained for a more serious commitment or if they wanted to just try
it out, they could do that, too. I was amazed at the setup here and found
myself having a blast even though I wasn’t getting to fuck anyone.

The women there taught me all about how to choose
the right chastity device to start out with, and then they showed me how to put
it on. Since that night I was still new, they told me that I was considered to
be someone that was trying it out so they would show me everything I needed to
know to make an informed decision as to whether or not I wanted to live a male
chastity life. Everything was so hot that I wasn’t sure that it would work for
me because it was having this horny effect on me. However, by the time Charles
and I left that night, I was pretty much sold on the whole idea of male
chastity.

Over the next few weeks, Charles and I went back to
the club as often as possible. By now, I was completely convinced that this
chastity thing was definitely for me and couldn’t wait to find out more about
how to get my very own Key Holder since I was no longer in a relationship with
anyone. I had to laugh a little when I thought of how much that bitch I used to
be with would have fucking loved
this! Being able to carry a little key around to a cage that kept my cock under
control would have been right up her alley. It also gave me a little thrill
that I had never allowed her to do that to me. Yet, here I was actively looking
for a way to find a Key Holder so that I could start living this male chastity
lifestyle.

Soon enough, I was assigned to a Key Holder whose
name was Stephanie. She took pretty good care of me, I have to say. I learned
all about how to clean my chastity device and how often I needed to do that.
She taught me other stuff, too, like making sure that I knew how satisfy her
whenever she wanted it. The thing is, though, that when I had earned the
privilege, she let me out of my cage and allowed me to experience some sexual
pleasure of my own.

What had brought Charles and me to this moment right
now, though, was that I had decided that I loved this lifestyle so much that I
was ready to become a male chastity slave. Since Charles was already into that
to a degree, he brought me to Chastain Mansion. This was the home of Mistress
Chastain and her stable of chastity slaves. I was about to meet the Mistress
herself and, if I was found to be worthy, she would accept me as one of her
slaves.

The door was opening now and I am hoping that I will
be someone that she feels will fit in with her stable. I hope she’ll take me
because I still have so much to learn.

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The Life of a Male Chastity Slave

Male Chastity Slave

The Life of a Male Chastity Slave

When a man is considering taking up the role of a
male chastity slave, there are many things he needs to be aware of before
making the commitment. While he may have been involved in a chastity lifestyle
to some degree, becoming a slave is a totally different experience. For one
thing, if he was just into chastity for fun, relaxation or both, he may have a
little bit to say about the level of chastity he must practice. For instance,
his Key Holder may be someone he’s in a relationship with and they have limits
to what goes on in their particular chastity relationship.

If you think that being a male chastity slave is
going to be that simple and easy going, you need to think again. When you’re in
a slave situation, your Key Holder will also be known as your Owner, Mistress
or Master depending on the circumstances. You will have no say whatsoever in
when you come out of your chastity device and there’s not even a guarantee that
you will be allowed out of it.
Hopefully, though, your Key Holder will be well-versed in the safety measures
of chastity and won’t make you wear it for the rest of your life. That could be
a dangerous thing for you.

 

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Don’t Fear Being a Male Chastity Slave

Male Chastity Slave

Don’t Fear Being a Male Chastity Slave

Most men that are considering the life of a male
chastity slave are already in the chastity lifestyle. It is rare that a man
with no experience whatsoever in with chastity suddenly decides that he wants
to be a chastity slave. That doesn’t mean it never has happened; it simply
means that it’s a very rare occurrence. On the other hand, men that have been a
part of the chastity lifestyle for even a little while may decide at some point
that they want to take it to the next level and become a full time male
chastity slave.

If you’ve been involved in male chastity, you should
already know that there’s not a reason to be afraid of entering the chastity
slave aspect of this sub-culture. As long as you’re with someone you trust
implicitly, what do you actually have to be afraid of? Your Key Holder or Owner
should always be someone you trust above all others anyway. So as long as you
have that, it should be clear that this person would never do anything to hurt
you. If you’re still afraid of becoming a chastity slave, then either don’t do
it or find a Key Holder that you are more comfortable with.

 

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Being a Male Chastity Slave Takes Courage

Male Chastity Slave

Being a Male Chastity Slave Takes Courage

While many people look at being a male chastity
slave as taking somewhat of a wimpy and cowardly personality. The truth of the
matter is, though, that a chastity slave is actually a very brave man. He has
made the scary decision to turn over his total sexual pleasure to another
person. That takes a great deal of trust in order to do that. This is one of
the reasons that it’s highly recommended that your Owner is someone that you
know because, otherwise, you may not be able to trust that person.

A male chastity slave has to give up his sexual
freedom because he won’t be making those decisions for himself any longer. His
Owner/Key Holder decides when he gets to remove his chastity device and when
he’s allowed to have some true sexual release. In the meantime, he’s instructed
to satisfy his Owner’s/Key Holder’s desires in whatever way they have chosen
for him to perform this. Typically, the satisfaction is delivered through oral
means but other times various toys are involved. The point is that he must do
this while not being allowed to get an erection himself. Nothing takes more
courage than that.

 

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A Male Chastity Slave Must Be Committed

Male Chastity Slave

A Male Chastity Slave Must Be
Committed

As a good
male chastity slave you need to make sure that you are doing exactly what your
Owner wants. Sometimes that means thinking ahead and making sure to do things
that your Owner would like you to do but hasn’t told you to yet. If you can
manage to do that, then there is a very good chance that you are going to be
considered the best chastity slave ever and will get the release from your cage
that you have desired since getting into this lifestyle. Of course, that is
going to be harder to do than you might think.

Being a male
chastity slave is a difficult thing to do for a lot of guys because they find
that giving up sexual penetration or an erection in general is one of the most
difficult things to do. They normally get used to the idea of having to live
their lives in this manner, but it could take a bit of time for some guys to
finally give in and realize they are slaves. If you are willing to live a
lifestyle where you are a sexual slave to another person, then you have really
got to want it in order to be happy with your decision.

 

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Becoming a Male Chastity Slave

Male
Chastity Slave

Becoming
a Male Chastity Slave

If you’ve been into male chastity for a while now,
you may feel that you’re ready to go to the next level and become a male
chastity slave. Before you make that final commitment, you should probably
understand that there’s quite a difference between being a chastity slave and
just being involved in the male chastity lifestyle. The biggest difference is
in the fact that as someone that wears a male chastity device, you’ve got a bit
of say in how that all goes. Even your Key Holder will most likely work with
you as in when you get to take off the device and have some real fun. Male
chastity is really just to help you gain some self-discipline in your life and
learn more about what it means to please someone else more than yourself.

To be a www.koalaswim.comslave is to totally give up
all sexual pleasure unless your Mistress, Master or Owner deems it right that
you should have it. You’ll basically be spending all of your time pleasing the
person that you’re in service to. That’s why they call it being a slave. So you
should consider that when making the decision to try it out or not. It’s not
going to be anything that you ever dreamed it would be.

 

Differences in Male Chastity Slave lifestyles

Male Chastity Slave

Differences in Male Chastity Slave
Lifestyles

The typical
male chastity slave will find that wearing items that they have no control over
will increase their sexual tension drastically. The aspect of giving total
sexual control over to another person has been a mainstay in the BDSM lifestyle
for decades, but the prospect of not allowing someone to get even an erection
is something that only the chastity slave will ever have to go through. There
are some BDSM fetishists in existence that have started to incorporate the
chastity device in their sessions, but they aren’t wearing them nearly as long
as the chastity slave would wear.

You are also
not going to find very many BDSM slaves that will wear a chastity device out of
free will either. Most chastity slaves are the ones that bring the chastity
fetish into the relationship to begin with. They are the ones that want to try
something different and new, whereas the BDSM slaves are usually forced to wear
these items because their Master or Mistress has deemed it necessary for their
training. No matter which way you look at it, though; there are benefits to
both ways of thinking when it comes to wearing a chastity device. But wearing
it because you want to is much better.

 

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